Wednesday, 6 July 2011

4 Angels behind my Childhood

George Elior in his book The Miles on the Floss, he quoted that we would have never loved the earth so well if we have no childhood in it. Childhood is the best part of every person’s life. The memories of those days are treasured forever. It is the stage of life where we are innocent and young. The days are really unforgettable and cherish able. It is the part of a life where we meet our precious and best friends. My childhood days are the best part of my life. I can live the rest of my life by cherishing those memories. The mixture memories of love, laughter, etc… are always the best.

Reflecting back to those days I still remember my gang with whom I had shared my top secrets. They are the best ones. Back then we were the prank-master of our school. The youthful and innocent days at Jyenkhana pry. School is still very vivid in my heart.

 My childhood friends are sweet, bubbly and awesome. My entire childhood days revolve around those people. I was gifted with a circle of buddies who are the best of best.
I am surrounded by group of angels who always guided me when I intended to go in wrong direction. They shared my happiness and sorrows. Together we have created the most incredible memories. From childhood days till today, we had always been on each other’s side.

 Asha subba: The pretty girl with a golden heart. The darling girl of our group. You are just AWESOME!!!!

Kinley Bidha: The girl with open heart. A friend ready for any adventure. Pure heart for friend.You are just AMAZING!!!!

Tashi Choden: Our reletion is just something that everyone loves. The tallest friend with true heart. You are just FANTASTIC!!!!

Tashi Choden (Pasa): My most innocent friend with angel’s heart. A friend whom I know more than anyone else. My youngest buddy. You are just the BEST!!!

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born. In every stage of our life, we come across a different friends but the precious and best one will be the same in every stage. Friend is someone on whom we can rely and before whom we can open our heart. Life is incomplete without friend. I had four friends who had always been so kind and dear to me in every stage of my life. They are the world’s best friend. I love you all.

The unknown love ……

Love is blind and it can happen any time ….there is no seasons and reasons to fall in love. People says that love is from heart and admire is from mind but I believe that both are same. However I heard that love at First sight is really pure and true. I want to share a story about a girl and a boy. It is a real not a reel. I dedicate this piece of writing to my beloved and dearest friend tenzin dolkar.
“We are only left with few days ……Chimi ….now tell him the fact oey……it is not so late sii….”said Kinzang, her best friend. The reply was as usual…… “I can’t…kinza don’t tell to his friends tubga..”then as usual kinza responded. …“Then when are you going to tell him, we are only left with few days to complete our college”.
College days are fun and every one loves it. They enjoy the days with full heart. Year 2008 gave birth to two juvenile love birds; unfortunately they were unable to express their feelings. Finally time arrived for them to walk in different part.
She is simple, lovely, cute, bright and beautiful. She lives with the fashion. She hates showing off but still she looks gorgeous in her simple dress. A girl of her word. She is Chimi Dolkar. She is  Beautiful  and her smile can melt the heart of thousand guys!!!! He is cool, handsome and serious. The heartthrobs of college girls. Every girl in the college falls over him. He is everyone’s sweetheart but his heart is only for his dream girl tenzin. He is Kuenga Dorji.
Their love story is really interesting as it do not have any shape like others. Their story is unique. The first time Dorji saw chimi was during the orientation. She was wearing black and orange kira with black wongu n matching tego. The first sight of her captured his heart and he was in love with her. He remained silent and never told any one. He kept it secret for almost one and half years. At the end of his college he personally told his best friend but Chimi never knew about it.
The first time Chimi saw him was during morning PT.It was five o’clock in the morning. The whistle was blowing and every one was shouting like anything. It was time for jogging. Students were asked to line up near the dining hall. It was during that time she had the first glimpse of her Mr. Right. He was wearing a red jersey shirt and a white half pant. He looked damn cool and handsome. His hair was not combed but still he appeared cool.  The way he dress really impressed her and she knew he was the one. He was her apple of eye.
The days at college flowed like anything but there was no sign of their love. Both of them kept silent and thus this silence made their love grow stronger. Nobody in the campus knew about it only few of us did. I being her friend wanted to tell him about her feelings but she always refused me. Anyhow I managed to give him a hint and I am sure he knew. Soon a time came for us to say good bye to each other. I was helpless.
Then one fine day I called him and told about her but he was not so serious. It was not enough I wanted to see two of them together. They will make a perfect couple. However, it happened one day that his friend told me about Dorjis love for Chimi. It was an emotional moment for me. I called her immediately and told her everything. Though both of them knew about their feelings but still they never confessed each other. It still remained as an unknown love.

My Lost friend...

It was a fine Friday morning of 30th June 2000. We did our last paper for the midterm examination. All the students were very enthusiastic to leave for a short vacation. I was one among them who was keenly waiting for that break so that I could attend many functions in my village. I meet with my class mates and said goodbye, but I never knew that this adieu will be forever for one of my friend.

Friends come and go but some make incredible memories which are very hard to erase out of our mind. I had a friend who was one of the best among many. He was very close to all of us and he was the brightest among us. We were really a good friend. I could still remember those days we spent at jyenkhana pry. School. The year 2000…when I was in fifth standard I lost one of my best friends.

After we departed for our vacation, he stayed with his parents at school only. Since it was summer, it was time for fishing. The next day 1st July 2002…I saw him going for fishing to a place called Dripchu...Our favorite picnic spot along with two friends. I had a little talk with them. It was last glimpse of my dear friend.

Later that afternoon I went to my friend kelzang house to attend her annual puja. Most of us were there happily sharing the special moment. We were planning about a picnic and some of us danced and all I could say is that we were enjoying at the fullest. Suddenly our happiness was dimmed by the news of our friend. We were told that he was drowned by the river…I could not believe it...We were all staring at each other’s face. Deep inside all of us were crying. I never knew such circumstance will happened on that day. We went home and were helpless. All our parents went looking for his body.
After the break we went to school. Our class looked gloomy in his absence. He is the one who made our class interesting and bright. The entire students were just sitting ideally. Our group talked about him. We felt really sorry for his father who was our dzongkha teacher. People of our community searched his body for three months but they could not. All were really helpless. All we did was a pray.
The year went slowly and each day made us to miss him more. Today as I look back I could still remember his smile and jokes he cracked. He was such a person who bought light to our class. We were really close. Now all of us are grown up and we are in our own world. However; we keep in touch and sometime we talk about him.
The death of my friend taught me that life is uncertain and never know what will happen. It also taught me that god never allow good people to suffer on the earth so he take them away from the Earth. Only with him my friend circle is complete, but it still remains incomplete. From those of us here we always miss you and your company.  You were really a wonderful person that I have ever met. We always pray for your soul to remain in peace. Hope to be born as friend in next generation. We always love you!!!!!

Tuesday, 5 July 2011

My fFour s$pecial Friends

Lovely times of our past will never return, but the lovely relationship and memories are there to stay forever. So they say. Life moves on with memories of what we have experienced. Some of these memories are beautiful, while others are not. Reflecting on the time I spent at the College , nostalgic memories come flooding in like a wild cataract.  I remember how I met my four wonderful friends then. They were, indeed, a special gift to me from the College.

These four friends were my world at the college. My days revolved around them. Each one of them gave me the real happiness of life. I owe them everything. From them I learnt life’s greatest truth, that life is meaningless without a friend.

My four friends gave me all the love and care that I needed. They showed me that life is fun. What I do today is only a reflection of the virtues demonstrated by my friends. And this is how I remember them in my life:

Tshewang Lhamo (Tweety) as hardworking and sincere;


   Denka (Somdit) as adventurous and exciting;

Sonam Zangmo (Jerry) as sweet and frank;

       Sonam Tshomo (SomT) as studious as she was a dreamer.

Thinking of my four friends makes me more alive. I feel fortunate that I chanced to come across such good souls in my life. I pray that our friendship continues, grows stronger and flourishes in the future. I  Love You All!!!